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Comment on Karma’s a bitch by sirjohndoe

sirjohndoe — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 09:49:05 +0000

No, didn’t do it in the Doctor’s office, actually I was unable to be there when she went due to work issues, but we had a very, very nice evening together

Comment on Karma’s a bitch by sweetpiv

sweetpiv — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 15:57:42 +0000

Well from experience, even when the doctor says “green light” she may still feel timid. Or not. LOL

*crosses my fingers for you*

If you take her in the doctors office…I want details.

Comment on Karma’s a bitch by sirjohndoe

sirjohndoe — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 16:38:36 +0000

The wisdom teeth stopped moving, so, while she does need to get them out soon, she has been more comfortable and painfree. And yes, I’ve been getting to enjoy the corresponding oral bounty finally. Soon we get to go back to the doctor and get clearance for vaginal sex. I feel like I should be in the room with her and when the doctor says we’re good I can shove him out the door and take her right there lol.

Comment on Karma’s a bitch by sweetpiv

sweetpiv — Mon, 21 Sep 2009 21:49:38 +0000

Oh we may be twins. I feel for ya, and her as well.

Comment on Crabby old man by sirjohndoe

sirjohndoe — Wed, 29 Jul 2009 20:38:03 +0000

Thank you very much.

Comment on Crabby old man by sweetpiv

sweetpiv — Sun, 26 Jul 2009 02:50:56 +0000

I have just spent nearly 2 hours reading your site. It’s refreshing. Thank you for being real. Most Dom blogs I read, the guy has a “I am GOD, kneel to me” thing going on. Makes me roll my eyes….you, I could so have coffee with and pick your brain. And I’d trust you to be real and honest….refreshing….I already said that, didn’t I?

Comment on Submission by thestoryofang

thestoryofang — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 23:29:20 +0000

All Masters need ME time. In fact i have always found that most time is for them. “it is all about them” is one of the first things all subs should and must learn to keep going. So many times a sub has to say….. it is all about Him…..

Even though many feel that subs/slaves are actually in control all the time….

But….

A Good seasoned Master should always get what He wants first.

Comment on Submission by Sub6470

Sub6470 — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 02:54:52 +0000

I think you are in the right track. I find that subs need to know what is expected from them at all times, as we crave a sense of direction at all times, well at least myself. I wish you good luck.

Comment on Submission by sirjohndoe

sirjohndoe — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 18:38:12 +0000

I think that what my brain is getting at here is more of a complaint about the fatigue of always carrying the weight in a relationship or sexual encounter – feeling like it’s my responsibility to make sure she gets off more or harder than she has in her previous vanilla sex life, my responsibility to make sure she knows how to keep me happy in the relationship, and to figure out how to keep her happy.

Somehow, this idea of not being in charge has snuck into part of my sexual thought process, but the more I try to integrate that into the idea of something that might actually happen, the more I realize that it’s a senseless fluke.

What I am doing is instituting some “me” days with C, and telling her ahead of time what I expect from her and what we will be doing and that I am not going to concern myself with making her cum or anything if we play.

I know it sounds ridiculously tame, but in my life, that is me being excessively needy.

Comment on Sometimes, I want to be cruel… by taiah

taiah — Thu, 04 Jun 2009 12:41:26 +0000

I can’t stand doormats either… but who am I to talk when I am stubborn? Personally, it would make me crazy dealing with someone who was that way. As a sub, I understand that sometimes that can be pleasing for certain individuals but I like women who are a little spicy it has to be more entertaining that way. Needy makes me insane, no matter who it is. It’s just not in my personality to be able to deal with them I suppose. -shrugs-